Thursday, June 28, 2012

100 reason WHY I LOVE YOU =)

這是你要的


愛你的100個理由

1.我想要了解你的一切一切。

2.因為你,我才變的開朗。

3.我想保護你,不想讓你受委屈。

4.我想讓你更了解我的優點。

5.我情緒不好的時候你會安慰我。

6.我想以後照的相片都有你和我的和照。

7.我們住在一起。

8.我不想在假日時獨守空閨。

9.你懂得比我多。

10.載你回家是我的夢想。

11.做夢的時候常常夢見你。

12.我想和你唱情歌。

13.我想讓這份感覺永遠埋藏在記憶裡。

14.我願意讓你發脾氣。

15.找不出來你的缺點。

16.我想去看夜景時有你在身邊。

17.不想在看電影的時候只是一個人。

18.你是可以讓我傾吐的人。

19.你是讓我心情可以保持開朗的人。

20.你是讓我覺得明天還有希望的人。

21.你是在地球毀滅前一分鐘最想在一起的人。

22.我想看你50年後的樣子。

23.因為是你。

24.你是讓我脾氣變好的人。

25.你是讓我送東西不心疼的人。

26.你是讓我戒菸的人。

27.你是讓我全心全意想付出的人。

28.你讓我感覺到世界是很美好的。

29.我喜歡你發脾氣的樣子。

30.我喜歡你愁眉緊鎖的樣子。

31.我喜歡你高興開心的樣子。

32.你讓我覺得生命更有意義。

33.你是善解人意的人。

34.我想還你上輩子欠你的。

35.你讓我更喜歡咖啡的味道。

36.你是讓中英文變進步的人。

37.你是我想牽手的人。

38.我覺得最近好像又變笨了。

39.你是我這一輩子最想在一起的人。

40.我想送你一只100年的戒指。

41.一天沒看到你就食而無味。

42.今生有你,別無所求。

43.為動人的情歌有人來對唱。

44.我已經沒有別的法子來感動你了。

45.我的世界只有你最懂。

46.你是我動心的人。

47.再也沒有人可以讓我想到那麼多理由。

48.我只想望著你告訴全世界我愛你。

49.我只想和你一生一世一起走。

50.我不想讓你再工作下去了。

51.我只想養你這一個女人。

52.除了你,我的一生,別無所求。

53.我想帶回去給我的老媽看看。

54.只有你,能讓我魂牽夢縈。

55.只有你,能讓我百看不厭。

56.只有你,我想改變一切。

57.因為你,是我繼續生存下的理由。

58.只有你,可以讓我放棄全世界。

59.只有你,可以改變我的人生觀。

60.想要你作我的老婆。

61.只有你能讓我有一股衝動我們結婚吧!

62.只有你能讓我有一股衝動我們生個寶寶吧!

63.只有你說的話,讓我不懂得去拒絕。

64.我想在你的心湖裡,充滿我的影子。

65.我希望能正大光明的親吻著你的手。

66.我希望能正大光明的摟著你的腰。

67.我希望能正大光明的吻你的唇。

68.我只想和你,來一次地久天長。

69.因為有你,昨夜的我又失眠了。

70.只有你,讓我能每天期待著電話鈴響。

71.每次見到你,我都好想將你擁在懷中,好好的一生一世呵護。

72.我每天早上起床後第一個想到的人就是你。

73.我想每天起床見到的第一個人就是你。

74.只有你,能讓我放下偽裝已久的面具。

75.只有你,能越過我那高樓般的心防。

76.因為你,讓我這顆飄泊已久的心,想安定下來。

77.只有你,讓我真的想努力向上。

78.我不想再辜負每一個浪漫的夜晚了。

79.我只想要你,陪我渡過每一個浪漫的夜晚。

80.我希望每天都能對著你說我愛你。

81.我想每天都能讓你開開心心。

82.我想讓你獨占我的每一個浪漫。

83.我想獨占你的心房。

84.想把我的保險受益人改成你的名字。

85.我想每天都能喝到你倒給我的飲料。

86.我想保護你一輩子。

87.我願用我生命的所有,換一生和你相處的緣份。

88.我希望我是你心情不好時的一個好朋友。

89.我希望我是你唯一的好情人。

90.因為有你的關系,連枯燥的上班都變得有意義,因為等下要陪可愛的你去逛街啊!

91.我希望你是我未來的老婆。

92.我希望能成為你和你未來孩子的好爸爸。

93.有你的鼓勵,我未來會很有錢。

94.我家的肥皂也因為想你,瘦了好多。

95.我想每天都能見到你那可愛的笑容。

96.我想牽著你的手,走過每一個人生的旅程。

97.我想牽著你的手,走過全世界的每一條大街小巷。

98.我想把我所有的心思,用在你的身上。

99.我家的枕頭希望你能睡它上面。

100.我的呼吸,只是為你。

Sunday, May 27, 2012

TRUE LOVE =)

老 公,你手機來電話啦! ”

男:喂?

女:喂,你……吗?

男:是,妳是誰?

女:我是……

男:噢,妳啊!找我有事?

女:你能出來一下?我在你們家外面的。

“ 去吧?老公~我相信你! ”

女:喝茶吧!

男:什麼事快說吧!這麼晚了。我不放心我老婆一個人在
家,她怕黑。

女:我離婚了!

男:為什麼啊!你老公不是很愛妳嗎?

女:他這個混蛋,他背著我搞了小三,嗚嗚嗚嗚

男:好了,别傷心了,妳還年輕,还有更好的等著妳……

女:你恨我嗎?

男:一切都過去了。我現在把妳當朋友,没有什麼恨不恨。

女:真的?

男:呵呵~當然,我有和妳說過謊嗎?

女:妳還愛我嗎?

男:……愛

女:我們结婚吧!?我一定會做一個賢妻良母。

男:我有妻子了,我和她上個星期剛領的結婚證書,再過兩
個月就结婚了。

女:不是還没结婚嗎?

男:不可以,她真的很愛我,我不能傷害她。

女:你不好意思我去說……

男:那也不行。

女:嗚~嗚,为什么?

男:因為我是男人,所以不可以。

女:我想知道是具體為什麼 你還愛我,而且我也還愛你,為什麼就不能再一起?

男:妳真想知道為什麼?

女:嗯。

男:

1:是一個人 ,我知道愛上一個人不容易更知道被傷後有多痛苦,所以我不能離開她。

2:之所以决定结婚是因為我决定了,這一輩子選定她了,選定她就是我這輩子唯一的女人。不管以後說什麼話都以不愧于她為標準,做什麼事都以不背叛她為原則,不管以後我们遇見的是風還是雨,我都會站在最前面為她擋風遮雨。

3:她很愛我,她很傻,很善良 她不管做什麼事都處處為我著想。我今天來都是經過她的勸說我才來的,她相信我,相信我不會對不起她,她决定嫁给我,就是决定把她的一生给了我。女人的一生是不允许被踐踏的。明白嗎?

女:懂了……

“ 世界上有兩種美 ”

外在美:它能滿足你的面子,但不定能给一生的幸福。

内在美:它雖然不能给足你面子,但它一定能给你一生幸福

女 人……面子重要……還是幸福重要……

女:做個朋友可以吗?

男:不要了,我不需要女朋友以外的女性朋友!

女:為什麼?說理由!!!

男:

第一,没有共同語言,我平時玩的東西妳們女孩子也不喜歡玩。

第二,妳滿足不了我女朋友可以給我的需求。

等三,我没時間和妳逛街吃飯什麼的,那是陪女朋友做的事

第四,我女朋友會吃醋。所以何必呢?



男 人 最驕傲的不是睡過多少女人,
而是能有一個女人願意讓他睡一輩子。

女 人 最驕傲的不是擁有多少男人,
而是她的男人願意為他拒绝多少女人。

Saturday, May 12, 2012

Dedicate to all lovers

了解你的男人:第一次他吻你哪了?

嘴唇-絕對專一。
一下子便吻你的嘴唇的男人,通常對愛侶從一而終的,不會見異思遷的。


額頭-溫柔體貼。
這類男人為人積極,擁有理性,且極具有智慧的頭腦,最大優點是懂得尊重別人,所以他們的人緣一般都不錯的。

眼簾-極度痴情。
這類男人會認為愛情是生命中不可缺少的東西,而且對伴侶絕對專一,但他們往往有過激舉動。


臉頰-分享一切。
這種男人很重情,樂於將最好的與伴侶分享,而且為人大量,與他們拍拖通常能維持較長時間。

耳朵-善解人意。
他們懂得察言觀色,對請人更加體貼入微,令愛侶甜在心頭。不過,這種男人對自己的才智信心十足,有時或許變得急功盡利,不惜用別人達到個人目的。



頸側-用情不專。
先吻頸側的男人用情不專,為人自私,同時,他們又十分的懶惰,絕不介意另一半比自己有成就。



肩膀-性格軟弱。
這種男人相當情緒化,性格又十分軟弱,說話永遠婉轉,不懂直接表達自己的感受。

手背-情場高手。
此類男人是情場高手,他們善於製造浪漫,但不會付出真感情。對他們來說,事業.金錢和權利永遠放在首位,愛情只是他們生活中的點綴。

Tuesday, April 24, 2012

Mom

A wish for my birthday, for the stupidest woman in the world. 


She was once the earliest riser, waking up early in the morning, so worn out and fatigue, with red colour pigment, coloring the boiled eggs with her trembling hands, those are the things I would receive in the morning, on the date of 24th April. She was, indeed, a very crossed and traditional woman.

This morning, my birthday eve, I have had to get the boiled eggs colored, preparing the same as a celebration of my birthday, getting older by 1 year. Yet, she was unable to witness my age or repeat the same for me this year.

Mom, do you know you are stupidest in the world, at the bottom of my heart?? 30 years ago, you had gone through so much of pain and misery, bestowing me a life. Do you know it? My day of birth is your day of disaster, your day of pain, your day of suffering. Quietly, for years, without a mumbly word, you had been showering your love to me. You had never asked for any repay in return....

Mom, do you know the folly you have done in my life makes me so hurt? You are so foolish! You had always been the one who conceded and surrendered in the dispute, sobbing bitterly and crying miserably yourself. You are the one, being so patient to me even you were insulted irrationally. Dad told me that you had been so worried about me even at your old age...this was you, giving and showering the unconditional love. Why didn't you love or care for yourself more? Or telling me what I could do for you to make you feel better?

I miss the days, seeing you, sitting on the chair, enjoying the Astro show. I miss the days, listening from you, "son, what do you like to eat tomorrow night?". I miss the days, which you used to ask "son, how's your exam?". Mom, I miss your voice, really I am.

When I was a baby, you didn't mind, cleaning my body, holding my little hands, boarding up the bus, crossing the roads, taking care of me when I was sick.

Mama, please let me take care of your afterlife. That's my birthday, you gave it to me, that's the appreciation and gratitude I can do for you..love you, ever.

Monday, April 9, 2012

‎"老公,你手机来电话啦!”

男:喂?
女:喂,你……吗?
男:是,你是谁?
女:我是……
男:噢,你啊!找我有事吗?
女:你能出来一下吗?我在你们家外面的。

“去吧?老公我相信你”

女:喝茶吧!
男:什么事快说吧!这么晚了。我不放心我老婆一个人在家,她怕黑。
女:我离婚了!
男:为什么啊!你老公不是很爱你吗?
女:他这个混蛋,他背着我搞了小三,呜呜呜呜
男:好了,别伤心了,你还年轻,还有更好的等着你……
女:你恨我吗?
男:一切都过去了。我现在把你当朋友,没有什么恨不恨。
女:真的?
男:呵呵当然,我有和你说过谎吗?
女:你还爱我吗?
男:……爱
女:我们结婚吧,我一定会做一个贤妻良母。
男:我有妻子了,我和她上个星期刚领的结婚证,再过两个月就结婚了。
女:不是还没结婚吗?
男:不可以,她真的很爱我,我不能伤害她。
女:你不好意思我去说……
男:那也不行。
女:呜呜,为什么?
男:因为我是男人,所以不可以。
女:我想知道是具体为什么 你还爱我,而且我也还爱你,为什么就不能再一起?
男:你真想知道为什么?
女:嗯。
男:1:是一个人 ,我知道爱上一个人不容易更知道被伤后有多痛苦,所以我不能离开她。
2:之所以决定结婚是因为我决定了,这一辈选定她了,选定她就是我这辈子唯一的女人。不管以后说什么话都以不愧于她为标准,做什么事都以不背叛她为原则,不管以后我们遇见的是风还是雨,我都会站在最前面为她挡风挡雨。
3:她很爱我,她很傻,很善良 她不管做什么事都处处为我着想。
我今天来都是经过她的劝说我才来的,她相信我,相信我不会对不起她,她决定嫁给我,就是决定把她的一生给了我。
女人的一生是不允许被践踏的。
明白吗?
女:懂了……

“世界上有两种美,外在美:它能满足你的面子,但不定能给一生的幸福。
内在美:它虽然不能给足你面子但它一定能给你一生幸福,女人——……面子重要……还是幸福重要……”

女:做个朋友可以吗?
男:不要了,我不需要女朋友以外的女性朋友!
女:为什么?说理由
男:第一,没有共同语言,我平时玩的东西你们女孩子也不喜欢玩;第二,你满足不了我女朋友可以给我的需求;等三,我没时间和你逛街吃饭什么的,那是陪女朋友做的事;第四,我女朋友会吃醋。所以何必呢?


男人最骄傲的不是睡过多少女人,而是能有一个女人愿意让他睡一辈子。
女人最骄傲的不是拥有多少男人,而是她的男人愿意为他拒绝多少女人。


男人,要经得起诱惑!!!!!!
女人,要耐得起寂寞!!!!!!

Friday, April 6, 2012

Really Heart Touching

I was walking around in a Big Bazar store making shopping, when I saw a Cashier talking to a boy couldn't have been more than 5 or 6 years old..

The Cashier said, 'I'm sorry, but you don't have enough money to buy this doll. Then the little boy turned to me and asked: ''Uncle, are you sure I don't have enough money?''

I counted his cash and replied: ''You know that you don't have enough money to buy the doll, my dear.'' The little boy was still holding the doll in his hand.

Finally, I walked toward him and I asked him who he wished to give this doll to. 'It's the doll that my sister loved most and wanted so much . I wanted to Gift her for her BIRTHDAY.

I have to give the doll to my mommy so that she can give it to my sister when she goes there.' His eyes were so sad while saying this. 'My Sister has gone to be with God.. Daddy says that Mommy is going to see God very soon too, so I thought that she could take the doll with her to give it to my sister...''

My heart nearly stopped. The little boy looked up at me and said: 'I told daddy to tell mommy not to go yet. I need her to wait until I come back from the mall.' Then he showed me a very nice photo of him where he was laughing. He then told me 'I want mommy to take my picture with her so my sister won't forget me.' 'I love my mommy and I wish she doesn't have to leave me, but daddy says that she has to go to be with my little sister.' Then he looked again at the doll with sad eyes, very quietly..

I quickly reached for my wallet and said to the boy. 'Suppose we check again, just in case you do have enough money for the doll?''

'OK' he said, 'I hope I do have enough.' I added some of my money to his with out him seeing and we started to count it. There was enough for the doll and even some spare money.

The little boy said: 'Thank you God for giving me enough money!'

Then he looked at me and added, 'I asked last night before I went to sleep for God to make sure I had enough money to buy this doll, so that mommy could give It to my sister. He heard me!'' 'I also wanted to have enough money to buy a white rose for my mommy, but I didn't dare to ask God for too much. But He gave me enough to buy the doll and a white rose. My mommy loves white roses.'

I finished my shopping in a totally different state from when I started. I couldn't get the little boy out of my mind. Then I remembered a local

news paper article two days ago, which mentioned a drunk man in a truck, who hit a car occupied by a young woman and a little girl. The little girl died right away, and the mother was left in a critical state. The family had to decide whether to pull the plug on the life-sustaining machine, because the young woman would not be able to recover from the coma. Was this the family of the little boy?

Two days after this encounter with the little boy, I read in the news paper that the young woman had passed away.. I couldn't stop myself as I bought a bunch of white roses and I went to the funeral home where the body of the young woman was exposed for people to see and make last wishes before her burial. She was there, in her coffin, holding a beautiful white rose in her hand with the photo of the little boy and the doll placed over her chest. I left the place, teary-eyed, feeling that my life had been changed for ever...

The love that the little boy had for his mother and his sister is still, to this day, hard to imagine. And in a fraction of a second, a drunk driver had taken all this away from him.

Please DO NOT DRINK & DRIVE.

Saturday, February 11, 2012

A Sad Sad Story Please Read

Married or not you should read this...


“When I got home that night as my wife served dinner, I held her hand and said, I’ve got something to tell you. She sat down and ate quietly. Again I observed the hurt in her eyes.

Suddenly I didn’t know how to open my mouth. But I had to let her know what I was thinking. I want a divorce. I raised the topic calmly. She didn’t seem to be annoyed by my words, instead she asked me softly, why?

I avoided her question. This made her angry. She threw away the chopsticks and shouted at me, you are not a man! That night, we didn’t talk to each other. She was weeping. I knew she wanted to find out what had happened to our marriage. But I could hardly give her a satisfactory answer; she had lost my heart to Jane. I didn’t love her anymore. I just pitied her!

With a deep sense of guilt, I drafted a divorce agreement which stated that she could own our house, our car, and 30% stake of my company. She glanced at it and then tore it into pieces. The woman who had spent ten years of her life with me had become a stranger. I felt sorry for her wasted time, resources and energy but I could not take back what I had said for I loved Jane so dearly. Finally she cried loudly in front of me, which was what I had expected to see. To me her cry was actually a kind of release. The idea of divorce which had obsessed me for several weeks seemed to be firmer and clearer now.

The next day, I came back home very late and found her writing something at the table. I didn’t have supper but went straight to sleep and fell asleep very fast because I was tired after an eventful day with Jane. When I woke up, she was still there at the table writing. I just did not care so I turned over and was asleep again.

In the morning she presented her divorce conditions: she didn’t want anything from me, but needed a month’s notice before the divorce. She requested that in that one month we both struggle to live as normal a life as possible. Her reasons were simple: our son had his exams in a month’s time and she didn’t want to disrupt him with our broken marriage.

This was agreeable to me. But she had something more, she asked me to recall how I had carried her into out bridal room on our wedding day. She requested that every day for the month’s duration I carry her out of our bedroom to the front door ever morning. I thought she was going crazy. Just to make our last days together bearable I accepted her odd request.

I told Jane about my wife’s divorce conditions. . She laughed loudly and thought it was absurd. No matter what tricks she applies, she has to face the divorce, she said scornfully.

My wife and I hadn’t had any body contact since my divorce intention was explicitly expressed. So when I carried her out on the first day, we both appeared clumsy. Our son clapped behind us, daddy is holding mommy in his arms. His words brought me a sense of pain. From the bedroom to the sitting room, then to the door, I walked over ten meters with her in my arms. She closed her eyes and said softly; don’t tell our son about the divorce. I nodded, feeling somewhat upset. I put her down outside the door. She went to wait for the bus to work. I drove alone to the office.

On the second day, both of us acted much more easily. She leaned on my chest. I could smell the fragrance of her blouse. I realized that I hadn’t looked at this woman carefully for a long time. I realized she was not young any more. There were fine wrinkles on her face, her hair was graying! Our marriage had taken its toll on her. For a minute I wondered what I had done to her.

On the fourth day, when I lifted her up, I felt a sense of intimacy returning. This was the woman who had given ten years of her life to me. On the fifth and sixth day, I realized that our sense of intimacy was growing again. I didn’t tell Jane about this. It became easier to carry her as the month slipped by. Perhaps the everyday workout made me stronger.

She was choosing what to wear one morning. She tried on quite a few dresses but could not find a suitable one. Then she sighed, all my dresses have grown bigger. I suddenly realized that she had grown so thin, that was the reason why I could carry her more easily.

Suddenly it hit me… she had buried so much pain and bitterness in her heart. Subconsciously I reached out and touched her head.

Our son came in at the moment and said, Dad, it’s time to carry mom out. To him, seeing his father carrying his mother out had become an essential part of his life. My wife gestured to our son to come closer and hugged him tightly. I turned my face away because I was afraid I might change my mind at this last minute. I then held her in my arms, walking from the bedroom, through the sitting room, to the hallway. Her hand surrounded my neck softly and naturally. I held her body tightly; it was just like our wedding day.

But her much lighter weight made me sad. On the last day, when I held her in my arms I could hardly move a step. Our son had gone to school. I held her tightly and said, I hadn’t noticed that our life lacked intimacy. I drove to office…. jumped out of the car swiftly without locking the door. I was afraid any delay would make me change my mind…I walked upstairs. Jane opened the door and I said to her, Sorry, Jane, I do not want the divorce anymore.

She looked at me, astonished, and then touched my forehead. Do you have a fever? She said. I moved her hand off my head. Sorry, Jane, I said, I won’t divorce. My marriage life was boring probably because she and I didn’t value the details of our lives, not because we didn’t love each other anymore. Now I realize that since I carried her into my home on our wedding day I am supposed to hold her until death do us apart. Jane seemed to suddenly wake up. She gave me a loud slap and then slammed the door and burst into tears. I walked downstairs and drove away. At the floral shop on the way, I ordered a bouquet of flowers for my wife. The salesgirl asked me what to write on the card. I smiled and wrote, I’ll carry you out every morning until death do us apart.

That evening I arrived home, flowers in my hands, a smile on my face, I run up stairs, only to find my wife in the bed -dead. My wife had been fighting CANCER for months and I was so busy with Jane to even notice. She knew that she would die soon and she wanted to save me from the whatever negative reaction from our son, in case we push through with the divorce.— At least, in the eyes of our son—- I’m a loving husband….

The small details of your lives are what really matter in a relationship. It is not the mansion, the car, property, the money in the bank. These create an environment conducive for happiness but cannot give happiness in themselves.

So find time to be your spouse’s friend and do those little things for each other that build intimacy. Do have a real happy marriage!

save a marriage. Many of life’s failures are people who did not realize how close they were to success when they gave up.

Monday, January 30, 2012

So True

I dunno why I always do this but I think I trying to hide something which deep inside of me =)